Single men dating tips
NOW HOLD ON TO YOUR HORSES…really though, he’s NOT holding back: Warning this is a long post. This new series is going to be a fun project for me.
First & foremost I want to apologize in advance for this post and then I want to say you’re welcome.
He will not like you more if you sleep with him right away, actually it’s just the opposite. Maybe it’s stuff you knew, but didn’t want to believe.
…Now if you’re just in it for the sex & not the relationship then go ahead & get it girl. You never want to be the guy that sends the girl home after…”a nice evening”…You also don’t want to be the guy early on in the relationship that has to wake up next to a girl you’re just getting to know after a HEAVY night of whatever the hell you guys were doing the evening before… When you tell us not to do something, we want to do it. I vividly remember a few years ago I went to Vegas with my guy friends & Lauryn said “go ahead, bye.” And while they were all raging I was outside of the club calling Lauryn. Having a girl who’s confident & cool enough to let you do your thing is a real keeper…and men know it.
If a guy wants you he will MOVE a fucking mountain with his bare hands, he’ll swim across a shark infested ocean, he will even cut his own arm off just to get to you. I don’t know why this is, probably because it’s a challenge. Any men reading this are probably going to scream “TRAITOR!!! If you sleep with us right away we have “conquered” ( that’s not a good term to use for this but you get my point, right? In the past ( pre-Lauryn ), whenever I’d pursue a woman I’d go at it full force.
There’s no such thing as ‘we don’t have time or we’re busy.’ This is a guy trying to be nice so that he doesn’t have to say, “hey, not interested” or he’s keeping you on the back burner. ” and it pains me to turn on my fellow man like this. It was only when they would sleep with me early on that a light switch would go off in my head & I’d be immediately un-attracted. Of course, I’d be really interested to hear your thoughts. And what do your husbands or boyfriends think of this post?
So…I’m going to give you advice as a MAN for what men want on a date and in a relationship.
Alright, I’m going to give you 5 general tips with some sub tips that I have developed over the years… We get it…your old boyfriend was great, or maybe he was terrible, more than likely he was both great & terrible?
I thought something was wrong with me until I recently read ”. I grew up with two sisters & now that I’m going to be marrying Lauryn, I have 2 more sisters ( hers ) to look after. Single ladies, what have your experiences been like?
Now that we know this is a scientific psychological effect on men, what is the simple answer? Make it a challenge, go on a few dates, develop a relationship, & a friendship ( that’s what Lauryn did, for the record ).
This is kind of like a fitness trainer putting someone through hell only to come out the other side with a better physique & healthier body.
The reality check and hard work SUCKS but the reward is well worth it.