How to succeed in speeddating
Have you ever deleted an opening message based solely on the thumbnail image?
I think everyone has at some point, and imagine how often you would do this if you received 20-50 a day instead of 1 or 2 a week. Most attractive women don’t even open all of their messages simply because they can’t be bothered to sift through them all.
I’ve made countless errors, put up stupid pictures, sent even stupider messages and had “sure things” vanish into thin air.
Does she love an obscure movie that you’ve also seen? Is she doing a degree in a subject that you have knowledge about?
Find something that you can grab hold of and use, whether that’s a specific piece of information or just a vibe you’re getting. It’s hard to figure someone out based on just a few words and a picture or two, but you have to learn to go with your instincts.
Unfortunately this will only come with practice, and the more messages you send, the better you will get.
Online dating is exactly the same as meeting someone the conventional way—it’s purely a numbers game and the quicker you realise this, the better.