How to know if i am dating a loser woman and home online dating
Any man who really cares about you will care about how you feel and what you’re thinking.
If you are dating a guy who never asks why you’re upset, doesn’t seem interested in how your day was, or couldn’t give a damn if you are feeling lonely tonight, then you’re not really dating. He’s a loser and not only will he not care about your feelings, but he’ll wreck your heart if you keep him around.
The first sign I’m not going to date someone is when I tell him I’m a writer and he doesn’t say “Really? ” If he has no interest in your job or your interests, then he’ll never support you in your endeavors. Your man is nowhere to be found…or too busy to show up.
More importantly, if you date a guy who says, “Wouldn’t you rather do (insert something random and high class here) instead? This is the kind of guy you don’t want in your life. It doesn’t matter how much my mom and I fight, if my guy disrespects her then the relationship will never work out. I dated a guy who was very nice and sweet, but he always put the guys first.
Equally as important, if he’s sweet as pie to you before you have sex, but then treats you badly right after sex, he’s a loser.
If he jumps up and leaves right afterwards or is gone before you even have time to get dressed, then he’s not worth having around.
He will never consider you his equal, he will never put you first, and he will not take your opinions and feelings into consideration because he puts himself ahead of you (and everyone else).
Now, if your guy occasionally walks ahead of you because he’s super excited over something (the ball game you’re heading to or the new video game he’s nerding over), that’s okay.
I had a lover get rough with me and when I said, “Hey, no I don’t like that,” he replied, “I was just being mean.” No man who respects you will ever be mean to you during sex.
I’m not talking about consensual bondage or BDSM; I’m referring to him just being a jerk in bed.
If you’re dating a man who doesn’t care about your sexual feelings and preferences, then he’s a loser.
If your man is too good to flip burgers to provide for his family, then he’s a loser. Has he ever referred to a woman walking down the street as a “sl*t” because she’s in a short skirt?
Has he ever said, “I’d like to punch her in the face” about a woman he doesn’t like?