Dating someone divorced with kids
If he was the victim: Depressed, angry, and mistrustful.
If your separated man was cheated on by his wife, these fallout emotions will likely rear their heads in some form as you get to know him.
The real reason his divorce hasn’t been finalized could be because of unfinished legal business. Often, his anger will be directed towards his wife – not necessarily through long rants but through small jabs, backhanded remarks and seething sarcasm disguised as humour.
I remember one separated man I dated would seethe as he referred to his wife as the “Succubus” — she’s a demon that takes on a human form to sexually seduce men.
Hopefully he doesn’t decide to withdraw his trust from all women and relegate them to “only being good for one thing.” If this is separated man, you might have a ‘Wounded Player’ on your hands. He’s getting too serious too fast There’s one word that best explains why your separated man is getting really serious really fast: he’s .
The high and excitement of getting involved with you is essentially distracting him from the pain of his divorce.
In fact, I pity any man who dated me when I was separated; I was messed up, and didn’t even know it!The thing about anger is that it uses up a lot of energy and space in your separated man’s brain and heart.That’s energy and space that he can’t and won’t channel into you in positive ways. He doesn’t consistently spend time with his children.And not to say that you aren’t special, but his infatuation with you has less to do with who you are than how this relationship is presently making him feel.Rest-assured, his garbage is going to come out – and lucky you, you’ll end up helping him sort it.