Dating for dumbies
This is a bit more alarming, because a hemorrhoid holds a bunch of blood inside. Even if you're normally very quiet during sex, this is a time you'll wanna speak up—especially your first time trying it out with a new partner. Once you're in the groove of things, add in some clit stimulation, some vaginal stimulation, or heck, all three.You'll probably feel some level of discomfort or pain if you have a hemorrhoid, and if it bursts, you'll definitely see some bleeding that should totally subside within a few days. Tell them if they're going too fast (or too slow—see point 10 below), if you feel like you're literally about to poop everywhere, or if you're experiencing pain/discomfort. If you're feeling nervous, chances are your partner is, too. Some women say this combo feels overstimulating in the best way.sensations are to be expected—a lot of women say it feels like they need to poop, or like a primal, pressure feeling.
Pain most commonly comes from anal fissures, or little tears in the tissue around the anus, which is very thin and delicate. As always, if you're bleeding profusely or persistently (like, for longer than an hour), you should call a doctor.
This isn't to say that everyone who likes roller coasters will also like anal sex.
The takeaway from this metaphor is that it's very much fine to be nervous about it beforehand—even if you're totally sure (and you should be) that this is something you want to be doing.
In any case, women need some combination of stimulation to orgasm—whether that's clit/vaginal, or anal/clit vaginal is totally subjective.
But isn't it fun to learn new things about your own orgasms? Even if you're monogamous, a condom is probably a good idea.